Monday, May 31, 2010

On one Women's day!

During the month of March I was on a falling spree...before toppled off the bus..and then tumbled down the stairs...
Was in the process of getting ma bones intact back to form and was bored to the core..
It happened to be the 8th of March, yeah Woman's day!
Just picked up a conversation with one of ma best buddy s, Errol!

Me : "One this Women's day every woman has only one question...Is she independent?" the one question which every women is wanting know...

Errol : " if u think & ACT as u are independent.. Nothing can stop u... ur bound by nothin els dan d Power Of Imagination and ur ability to Adhere to ur imagination..."

Me : "It never answered my Q!"

Errol : "means.. whoz stopping u from being INDEPENDENT... independence.. is a feeling.. whc ought to come from inside... don't restrict urself.. Raise Up... Struggle, Strive.. n Fight for What u Deserve... thatz Independence... we all are Under Someone... parents, husbands, wives, government, we need to Raise Up... Independence can be perceived in many ways.. n for me.. standing up n Demanding what we deserved.. is INDEPENDENCE...."

Me : "This got me thinking. Do we women have the faintest idea what the freedom and independence we desire entails? We claim to have this independence and end up scolding men when they let us down emotionally. Isn... See More’t that dependence? We claim to be independent but when we realize the clock is ticking, get married to some ‘trophy husband’ only to dub him a loser when he turns out to be just that – a trophy husband. Much as ‘independent women’ would like to control their men, they do not exactly expect the men to totally concede to everything they demand. They still need a total man around the house. Isn’t that yelling out dependence?"

Errol : "
Independence in short means... Live n Let live.... and good thinking... itz real awesome..."

And the conversation ended here and we both moved on discussing other things..if i remember correctly about optimism and pessimism...He is too good at that I must say :) ...but somewhere some corner of my mind this thought kept haunting..." Is the woman really independent?? ".....!
Probably yes probably no!